HOW MUCH SPACE SHOULD YOU OCCUPY PERSONALLY?

In an environment of air, water and land, with the exosphere as ceiling of the Earth’s atmosphere, how much space must one person normally take? What distance should there be between you and the next person to constitute personal space?
Oxford Dictionaries define personal space as: the physical space immediately surrounding someone, into which any encroachment feels threatening to or uncomfortable for them. Mosby’s Medical Dictionary defines personal space thus: the area surrounding an individual that is perceived by the individual as private, who may regard movement into the space by another person as intrusive. Personal space boundaries vary somewhat in different cultures, but in general they are regarded as a distance of about 1 meter (3 feet) around the individual.
In terms of distance, Proxemics (it is the study about how humans use space) divides interpersonal space into four areas. The first two constitute personal space the subject of focus:
Intimate
Personal
Social

Public
INTIMATE
In intimate space the distance between you and the other person is, as it were set at under 6 inches or 15cm when close, and 6 inches to 18 inches or 15cm to 46cm when far.
Persons who fall within this space are those who are very close to the object of contact. They are parents, siblings, cousins, boyfriends, girlfriends, nieces, nephews, very close friends, husbands, wives etc. Within this space contact activities taking place include embrace (as in welcoming your little sibling back home from school), sharing a bed or mat with your parent, sibling or niece, bathing together in a bath, kissing one’s lover, caressing one’s lover, having sex, holding a baby in your bosom, breastfeeding your baby, packing your baby aback etc.
Intimate space are entered into in public spaces. In salons when hair is being treated and scalp touched, the intimate space of the one whose hair is being treated is entered. When you go to a massage parlor to get massaged, a lotion being applied to your naked body is done within your intimate space or personal space since intimate space is a component of personal space. People kiss in public parks.
Even outside of personal space distance intimate space could be entered. I live here in Ghana, West Africa, on the 3ʳᵈ Otswe Street, South La Estates in the La Dadekotopon Municipality, sharing border with Accra Metropolis to the west. I take a cell phone and talk with a friend in the United States of America. The very voice of my friend from across the Atlantic Ocean hits me in the ear, right away as his. My ear registers immediate recognition. Should the technical definition of personal space not to be relooked at? Currently, the telenovela getting attention in urban Ghana is Power and Passion. A telenovela is a Mexican soap opera. Normally in movies for that matter dramas, themes surround good guys versus bad guys. Viewers normally connect emotionally with the good guys against the bad guys. Consequently, both good emotions for the good guys, and bad emotions against the bad guys enter the intimate space of viewers.  
PERSONAL
In personal space the interpersonal distance is set at 1.5 feet to 2.5 feet (46cm to 76cm) when close, and 2.5 feet to 4 feet (76cm to 122cm) when far.
Persons normally sharing this area are colleagues, neighbors, friends, team mates etc.
Activities that take place within this space are conversations, discussions etc. Intimate space being mobile, overlap other personal spaces. Wherever you go you carry your personal space with you. For example if you want to explain something to a classmate you go to their desk stand close by them, sometimes with bodies touching, to do the explanation. In school sports like rugby in particular, personal spaces, and indeed intimate spaces interact and overlap. During Sunday service when students sit together in a pew there is interaction and overlap of personal spaces.
SOCIAL
In social space the interpersonal distance is set at 4 feet to 7 feet (1.2 meters to 2.1 meters) when close, and 7 feet to 12 feet (2.1 meters to 3.7 meters) when far.
PUBLIC
In public space the interpersonal distance is set at 12 feet to 25 feet (3.7 meters to 7.6 meters) when close, and 25 feet (7.6 meters) or more when far.
SUMMARY
Personal space is the area immediately surrounding a person regarded as a private territory.
Personal space has two components, intimate and personal.
There is overlap and interaction between personal spaces, private as they are, not necessarily amounting to violation.
PARTING SHOT
Personal space is just a microcosm of Space. Intimate space is carved out of personal space, personal space in turn is carved out of social space, social space in turn is carved out of public space, public space in turn is carved out of Earth’s space or natural environment, the Earth’s space in turn is carved out planetary space, planetary space in turn is carved out of galactic space, and galactic space in turn is carved out of the Universe.
The cleanliness and balance of the natural environment starts with how you manage your personal space.

Natural Environment! .......... Clean and Balanced!



Reference:
http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Personal+space

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